Valentine's Day

How do you feel about Valentine's Day? Is it merely a Hallmark created holiday to force couples to spend cash on bonbons and cheap red lingerie, or is it an opportunity to be incredibly romantic with the person you love? I think it's a bit of both, but I like to take the optimistic view that February 14th is a chance to indulge in a little bit of wonderfully, romantic fun with your partner. Do something that you wouldn't normally do. I'm not talking just dinner at your favorite spot and a cool movie- you do that every week. (or whatever your "dinner and a movie" is) Go to a nearby town for a mini-road trip, get dressed up really fancy and go into the city for drinks or a show, try a hot new place for dinner or a new type of ethnic food, get two bottles of wine and spend the night Tivo and IPONE-free just talking and hanging out like you used to when you first began dating, or do all the crazy romantic stuff you just never do because life gets in the way. I'm talking wearing a garter belt and thigh highs (ladies) and spending two hours getting ready (nails/hair/bod/makeup) or splurging on roses and candy and giving her a romantic massage (fellas). Either way you feel about V'Day, remember that at the end of the day it's about love. Tell someone you love them- if you're single tell your best friend or Mom- heck even your cat. Because on Valentine's Day everyone deserves a little extra love. Even Hallmark.